FOTFD - February 24, 2008
Friday, February 22nd, 2008
February 24, 2008
My family has entered into the chaos of spring this week and Stacey and I are working hard, and working together, just to keep up. Spring brings the start of new sports seasons and Michael is playing both soccer and baseball. Nicole participates in Girl Scout and takes ballet classes. That means that we shuttle kids, not only to and from school, but now also to practice, classes, friends’ houses, plus anything else that comes up every day of the week. I know many of you currently deal with this in your families or have already dealt with this blessing/challenge in you own lives and know exactly what I am talking about. For us, this is really the beginning of the stage where we both exist, almost entirely, to support the activities of our children, sacrificing many of the things that we want to do so that they can do what they want to do (and some of what we want them to do.)
I tell you all of this to explain something that I have come to appreciate this week about my marriage. I have always thought of Stacey as my partner and my helper, as me as hers, but this week has revealed a new level to that partnership. At this time in our marriage, a primary focus is to work together to serve others, in this case our children. While this has been the case in some way since they were born, it is taking on a new level of intensity as we give up more of our own desires to encourage them in theirs.
It is interesting to me as I look back at our marriage vows. While I remember promising to love her “in sickness and in health,” I don’t remember the minister saying anything about waving at each other in the car while running kids all over town, or how to strengthen our relationship over the phone with a steering wheel in one hand and a Quarter Pounder in the other. But you know what? It makes us appreciate each other more because we know that we are making those sacrifices together, on purpose, for our kids. It is just another cool aspect of marriage, serving others together. While having kids forces us to sacrifice for them, I hope that is something that Stacey and I will continue to do even after they are gone, serve together. I can’t think of a better way of sharing Jesus than to do it through service … together.
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Now join me as we “Focus on the First Day.”
God bless,
Mike
You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up… To more than I can be.
- You Raise Me Up – Brendan Graham
Communion
Do you ever wonder what Jesus’ brothers thought of him? I wonder if Mary & Joseph ever told them who Jesus really was. We see a powerful change in Jesus’ brothers, from “not believing in him,” to becoming leaders in the early church. What caused that change? I suspect that Jesus’ death and resurrection had a powerful impact on the lives of not only the disciples we read about frequently, but also his immediate family. Allow his death to have that same impact on you as we share the supper.
Sermon
“What’s It All For?” (Bob Chisholm)
Acts 18:2-3
“Marriage, marriage is what brings us together, today.” What is the ultimate purpose of marriage? What does God want couples to do with their marriages? Join us on Sunday as Bob helps us look at the couple, Aquila and Priscilla, to see how they model the answer to these questions.
Prayer Time
I am reminded frequently about the benefits of having “quality time” with my family. The greatest thing I can ever to do to strengthen my family is to come together in prayer. Every week, you have the opportunity to do that during Prayertime. On Sunday, take advantage of the chance you have to pray together. Gather your family during Prayertime and bring your family to the Father. Ask Him to lead your family, and then follow.
Sunday Night
“What We Know For Sure” (Matt Mazza)
Ephesians 5:31-32
How can your marriage praise and worship God? On Sunday evening, Matt will help us look at ways in which we can serve God through ministry in our marriage. Join us as Matt shares with us three examples of people you how who minister to others through their marriage.
We are encouraged to be a family of believers that choose to come together each week in worship. Come this Sunday with a desire to not just come to church, but come to truly be the church.